How to be His First and Last Love

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The first thing that you need to do to be his first love is to make sure that he knows how much you care about him. The second thing is to support him no matter what. If he ever gets into trouble, he will know that you have his back 100%. It doesn’t matter if it’s a big or small problem, just being there for him will show how much love you have for him. The third tip is giving him all of your attention while spending time together alone or with other people who are special in your life. He should know that you don’t have any secrets from each other and that nothing can come between the two of you because there’s no reason why anything should break up this good relationship between two people who love each other very much.”

Be a part of his life

Don’t be a passive observer. Don’t be a passive listener. Be a part of his life, not just a part of his plans or dreams. You can start by being an active participant in the things he’s already doing instead of sitting on the sidelines waiting for him to ask you out, call you up and so on. He’ll notice this new energy and want to spend more time with you than ever before!

Treat his family with love and respect

Now that you’re in a relationship, it’s important to treat his family with love and respect.

When your boyfriend says that he wants to introduce you to his parents or siblings, take it as an honor. He trusts you enough to share his most personal relationships with you—show him that this trust isn’t misplaced by being polite and respectful of his loved ones.

Your boyfriend will also want the best for your future together. His family is an extension of himself, so if they like what they see in you then he’ll probably be happy too! Make sure they know how much he means to you by being friendly and kind when interacting with them. If something happens where someone at the dinner table gets mad at another person (like when one sibling teases another), don’t defend the teased person or side against their tormentor—just stay neutral until everyone calms down again; then encourage everyone else around the table who wasn’t involved in whatever conflict there was just happened so all parties can move onto talking about something else instead of staying angry about things from before dinner started

Be loyal

  • Be loyal
  • Don’t cheat on him
  • Don’t flirt with other men
  • Don’t text other men

Your relationship is a top priority

When you’re in a relationship, it should be a top priority. Your significant other should be the first person on your mind when you wake up in the morning and the last person before going to sleep at night. You should always be on his mind because he wants you to be his number one go-to when life gets tough. The most important thing in his life is YOU!

Support him unconditionally

When a man has a problem, he doesn’t want to hear “what you should have done.” He wants support. He wants your unconditional love and support.

It will not be easy for him to share with you his problems because he fears that you may judge him or find out of his weakness and vulnerability. But when he finally does, let him know that it is okay to show his weaknesses and vulnerabilities because this shows how human he can be instead of some superhuman being who always has all the answers for everything in life.

If you want to be the best thing that ever happened to him, follow these tips.

If you want to be the best thing that ever happened to him, follow these tips.

  • Be supportive. Support your guy no matter what he does, even if it’s not what you think is best. Don’t be critical or judgmental; instead offer genuine support and understanding if he makes a mistake or fails at something.
  • Be loyal. Never cheat on him or let someone else in between the two of you. If he has problems with another woman, talk about it with him but don’t confront her directly—that just causes bad blood between them and might make things worse for your relationship!
  • Be a part of his life. Don’t forget about this man when things get busy at work or school because there will always be time for love when everything else falls apart around us:)


We know it can be a little overwhelming to think about all the ways to be the best thing that ever happened to him. The truth is, though, if you just listen to your heart and use these tips as a guide, they’ll help you find success in any relationship. Remember: your intentions will shine through every action you take—and if they don’t, then they probably aren’t worth doing anyway! So go out there and treat him how he deserves (which is like royalty), because we all deserve it too.

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